Age

Of enough emotional maturity that enables one to grasp the meaning of conjugal covenant and to accept that covenant as permanent; usually 18 years or older – special provisions are necessary for persons under 18.

Freedom to marry

An internal free choice of will with no sense of fear or threat of force present; no previous valid union that would be recognized by the church; and no canonical impediments such as Holy Orders, etc.

Due discretion

A discernment of judgment proportional to the importance of the conjugal covenant; knowing what one is doing and being capable of doing it.

Knowledge and ability to form a community of love/life

You understand yourself enough that you are aware of and understand most of your thoughts, needs, feelings, hopes, passions, dreams, fears, etc.; understand your partner enough that you recognize his or her family, history, assets, liabilities, feelings, etc.

Openness to children

Committed to responsible parenthood and working in partnership with God to raise loving, responsible and faith-filled children.